Sunday, March 21, 2010

DTG 101 (Dating Basics)

Referring to the title above,
I; Sly Nolan,
has been entrusted
to present a public speaking

"Rule of Dating, the DO's and DON'Ts"

ughhhh.. I'm so lazy to do it
but I have to...
So, I have decided
to share with you all first
before the presentation.
Lemme know if
there is any mistake
or you want to add some points to it.
Thank You.!
So here we goes!!

Have you ever been on a date?
Does it went well?
Or something bad/absurd happen?
Scared to go on a first date?
Well, Fear no more,
Because I'm here,
To teach you about the tips and tricks of
dating a subject i named,

DTG 101 = Dating Basics.

What Should You DO For a Date.

*Plan your date ahead of time, avoid the vicious cycle of saying, " I don't know, what you wanna do?" Decide on something and do it.*
**In addition, plan your budget! If you don’t have enough budgets, remove activities that are not important**
***Offer to split the bill. The issue of "who pays" is probably one of the largest sources of confusion for singles. Most people today feel that the bill is the responsibility of the party that asked for the date. If your date does pick up the tab, offer to pay the next time.***

*Be attentive to your date. When faced with the dilemma of whether to bare all or listen attentively, many singles prefer to listen. Just keep asking questions and they'll think you're brilliant and fascinating.*
**Men, the woman's liberation movement may have provided women with the means to financial independence and positions of power, but this does not mean that she no longer appreciates those little things that make you a gentlemen. Open doors for your date, pull out her chair for her, make sure she gets home safely. These are the things that make a good impression. **
***Follow where ever she/he wanna go, if you are tired, just take a rest at a vacant bench of have a drink. Just don't say that you are LAZY!***

*Just tell your date what is your opinion if they asked u a question, answer it sincerely but if it might hurt their feeling, do it the proper way.*
**It's important to stand your ground and let your date know where you stand on certain topics. The point is getting to know one another. Most people enjoy intellectual argument, as long as you avoid insulting your date's intelligence.**

*Crack jokes. Not only will this put your date at ease, it will show them you have a sense of humor. Just don't overdo it.*
**Everybody enjoy a good laugh, try to find something funny and not offending**

*Embed your sweet memories in an album, take pictures if you can. A camera flash never hurt anyone.*

* Call or email your date to let them know you had a good time. This doesn't have to be a plea to see them again right away. It's simply a courtesy. If your date had an enjoyable time too, this will be icing on the cake!*

Thing you should NOT do on a date.

*Funky? geek? hip-hop style? all of this is a no no!. You are going on a date, not some kind of costume party or an event. Wear something simple and neat*

*Turn off the mute button. Don’t ever let silences become the main event of your date. Try to find a fun topic to talk about. E.g. movies, hobbies and etc.*
**Don't turn your date into a therapy session. Avoid subjects like your ex, your bad relationship with your mother or your growing sense of insecurity over the strange growth you've discovered on your back.**

*Turn off your cell phone and keep your eyes from wandering. Nothing will show a greater lack of interest on your part than fielding phone calls and checking out the waitstaff.*

*Don't try to make any uninvited physical advances. There are so many different opinions on what is acceptable, physically, on a date. If there is chemistry, the physical aspects of a relationship will fall into place. If things feel right, then hold hands, whatever feels right. Nothing is worse, though, than a first date that is way too into PDA (public displays of affection). It's sort of like they are staking their claim, which is a major turn-off.*

*Women, don't be afraid to ask a man for a date. In fact, many men find a woman who will make the first move attractive and confident. A woman asking a man for a date doesn't have to be a pathetic plea to listen to Seal over a candlelit dinner. You can invite the guy to something you are going to anyway, like a concert, so it's like you are asking them to come along.*
**Don't be afraid to end the date early. If things aren't working out or you are uncomfortable, feel free to end the date at any time.**

This is the tips and tricks in getting the perfect date,
if you follow my all the guideline,
you will get an A+ in DTG 101 (Dating Basics)

Fuhhh~ finally,
done typing
if there is any any mistake or suggestion,
feel free to drop it in the comment section.


“My friend used to ask his mother, 'How can I find the right woman for me?' and she would answer, 'Don't worry about finding the right woman- concentrate on becoming the right man.'”

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